Give the person a sense of closure: Sometimes it's clear to both parties that a relationship is headed towards a breakup. In those cases, when the relationship finally does end, there's usually a sense of closure. Many times, however, the breakup comes as a complete shock to the other person. They are left dazed and confused, as if they were just hit by a speeding train and left lying on the tracks.
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They have found that feelings of love lead to a suppression of activity in the areas of the brain controlling critical thought
This photo was published online on Thursday 6/16/2011. It is from the Vancouver Riots that occurred the previous night after the Canucks lost the Stanley Cup to the Boston Bruins. It represents the duality of life. The power of love between two individuals versus the group mind violence of a riot. Life and death in one image.